Jaydan Heather Malsky

Let me tell your story

An ordained wedding officiant for couples who want their ceremony to sound and feel like them, with a particular love for working with queer couples. Based in NYC, working across the Hudson Valley and Connecticut.

Hi everyone, I’m Jaydan Heather

I’m an ordained wedding officiant with a background in comedy and storytelling, based in New York City. My ceremonies are built around one idea: my job is to tell your story. I work with a small, curated slate of couples each year — mostly queer, mostly in and around NYC, the Hudson Valley, and Connecticut — writing ceremonies that aren't one-size-fits-all, but a reminder of why everyone gathered with you on your special day is part of your love story. If this sounds like the ceremony you want, I'd love to work with you.

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let’s get in touch

I'm currently booking a small number of weddings for 2026 and 2027. If you'd like to start a conversation, reach out and tell me a bit about yourselves — who you are, when and where you're getting married, and any questions you have.